The best place to start is... right where Ketchup said. No one person can give you a 'this is exactly where you should start,' because everyone's learning style and needs are different. For some, video learning is key, so you might purchase come CBT's, or dig through free video tutorials. For others, reading books helps, for some working on labs helps. There's just too broad a spectrum.
If you truly want to do this, you should follow Ketchup's advice, start digging through the forums here, see what experiences others have, and what pointers and lessons they've taken away from the forums and discussions, and proceed from there.
One other thing you'll find. We're all here to help, but we're not here to simply handhold, as you won't learn effectively that way. You need to begin your search, and if you have questions or want to discuss something you've read (if it's from another source outside of ethicalhacker.net, then post on it here, and we'll open a discussion,) then open the discussion. But to simpy say, ' I would like it better if I could get some suggestions about my exact situation' tells us nothing of your 'exact situation' as everyone's differs, and you aren't asking us anything in particular, so we cannot answer you in particulars.
As Ketchup says, welcome to EH-Net, and you can learn a lot by being here. Heck, I learned a ton just searching the forums before I even joined and started interacting with others here!
Good luck, and we look forward to future discussions with you.
~ hayabusa ~
"All men can see these tactics whereby I conquer, but what none can see is the strategy out of which victory is evolved." - Sun Tzu, 'The Art of War'
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