I agree and apparently so do the authors of books on the topic. Both Ed Skoudis' book
Counter Hack Reloaded and Michael Gregg's book
CEH: Exam Prep both have in depth coverage of TCP/IP. In fact, you can read that specific chapter of Gregg's book here on this site by clicking the title link.
Your suggestion of being able to visualize the packet flow is a great one. Did you get a chance to look at the animation video I posted on the travles of a packet named
Warriors of the Net?
Whether it is looking at Snort or firewall logs to figure out what has happened, doing real time analysis using Wireshark or scanning using Nmap, a good understanding of TCP/IP is crucial.
Don
PS - Hey Kev, you're making a nice push for the Free Monthly Giveaway. Keep up the good work.