Thank you ajohnson & sh4d0wmanPP , Problem resolved, after hours of checking, the main culprit was this new macafee antivirus, that came pre installed with my new dell xps, its home network settings would not allow network adapters to vm's. so i uninstalled it & reinstalled with norton antivirus 2012. fired up backtrack. an ifconfig shows.
eth2 Link encap:Ethernet HWaddr 00:0c:29:95:57:84
inet addr:192.168.1.41 Bcast:192.168.1.255 Mask:255.255.255.0
inet6 addr: fe80::20c:29ff:fe95:5784/64 Scope:Link
UP BROADCAST RUNNING MULTICAST MTU:1500 Metric:1
RX packets:475 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 frame:0
TX packets:33 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 carrier:0
collisions:0 txqueuelen:1000
RX bytes:31955 (31.9 KB) TX bytes:2929 (2.9 KB)
Interrupt:19 Base address:0x2000
lo Link encap:Local Loopback
inet addr:127.0.0.1 Mask:255.0.0.0
inet6 addr: ::1/128 Scope:Host
UP LOOPBACK RUNNING MTU:16436 Metric:1
RX packets:179 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 frame:0
TX packets:179 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 carrier:0
collisions:0 txqueuelen:0
RX bytes:26266 (26.2 KB) TX bytes:26266 (26.2 KB)
root@bt:~# ping
www.google.comPING
www.google.com (173.194.45.19) 56(84) bytes of data.
64 bytes from
www.google.com (173.194.45.19): icmp_seq=1 ttl=50 time=166 ms
64 bytes from lis01s06-in-f19.1e100.net (173.194.45.19): icmp_seq=2 ttl=50 time=166 ms
64 bytes from lis01s06-in-f19.1e100.net (173.194.45.19): icmp_seq=3 ttl=50 time=