It is unfortunate that you are having to deal with these problems.  Unfortunately you will not find anyone here that will assist you in this endeavor.  If you have someone harrassing you, your best bet is to go to your local law enforcement for assistance. 

What you ask pretty much goes against all this site is here for.  We practice Ethical hacking.  We do not engage in illegal activity no matter how honorable the cause may be. 

The only thing I can recommend to avoid such things in the future is to watch what you do and say online with significant others.  These are the days of the internet and it does not take long to get pics and videos up online and available for all to see.  Your new boyfriend will have to understand this and support you any way he can. 

I hope things turn out alright.  Sorry we could not be of any further help.

Malachai, was saying that really worth bumping a 10 month old thread?

10 month old? Wow i haven't noticed i thought its new anyway im stil sorry for her!!!