Humm... Thanks for your advices!
Unfortunately, both my wireless routers (WBR-2310 and DIR-655) are not supported by DD-WRT... But maybe I can buy a third one just for the sake of playing with it. I bet I can find a cheap one easily...
You can also create a file of passwords and have the device change it everytime you log in (scripting with ssh).
That's a great idea chrisj, but I cannot do any special configurations on the DS. But I keep that in mind for a laptop!
I guess there's no way I can have a secure connection...
But what about this, without any human intervention once it is set up:
I use one Wireless Access Point with WPA2 for my laptops so I don't have to worry about anything for regular stuff.
Then I use another one with WEP and MAC address filtering. The one with WEP will be on a separate LAN with only access to an handful of web sites, like Nintando update and maybe two or three more. I could limit access to this AP when my daughters are around (like 7:00am to 7:00pm).
So an hacker who easily breaks WEP and MAC filtering would end up having access to the Nintendo update web site and nothing else (including on my own network).
Other manual things I could do (some not that great, but still not that bad):
1) I could also have an IDS who would alert me as soon as something looks suspicious. I would then change the password.
2) Change the password every day or so
3) Turn the AP off when I don't use it
What do you guys think of this?