I listened to Marcus J. Ranum (CEO of Tenable, makers of Nessus) Hack in the Box talk about Cyberwar is Bullsh*t (google for details, it is NSFW so I won't post a link). Where he made case that it is not a viable attack mechanism.
Hrmm I don't agree with that either. Neither, it seems, do many governments and a heck of alot of DoD contractors who are scrambling to get a piece of the cyberwarfare pie.