hi!!! well i did as suggested, reformat and reinstalled the operating system, changed my firewall and the antivirus and all seems to have been successful!! hmmm hes still got my phone number but thats minor now, i cant thank you all enough for your help and advice! the police still weren't interested but that hardly surprises me these days. hope your all good.  xxxxxxx

you know i cant say thanks enough for your messages, even if i cant solve the problem immediately its comfortin to get messages from ppl that know the score and know what their talkin about! and see ive learnt something already, i thought i was safe on msn and webcam, i was told not to accept e mails and pictures from ppl i didnt know but that was it, someone is ringin me back about the cyber crime unit, i will get it sorted out, just glad i found you lot. ill let you know wot happens. 

thankyou very much for your advice, i have texts that he has sent to my mobile basically admittin what hes done as in if i wont add him back to msn he will have to be my shade an just look at me without communicatin (he turns my webcam on) obviously i now keep my cam turned to the wall. the only thing i remember doin is accepting his webcam when we first spoke for him to show me his art which he did as then he was ok, is it possible to hack on a webcam invite on msn? i will contact the police again today and ask for the cyber crime. i do thankyou for your help. luckily ive only just got this pc so no other details other than my name address and phone number was in here, (which ive now removed) so at least my credit cards are safe.he seems to only want to communicate but obviously if he turns nasty i suppose he could shut my pc down. thanks again for that advice.

i dont know if anyone can help me but ive been hacked by a stalker, he phones my mobile after getting my number off my pc, turns my webcam on an sends sexual messages. i have phoned my broadband provider, my pc manufacturer and the police, they all pass the buck and no one seems to know what to do. even if i can learn how to get him out it would be a help, i dont know how much he can do. has anyone any ideas? i have a firewall and antivirus so how has he done it?